Some people! We had talked to my realtor about the possibility of selling our house this spring to look for a larger one. She said we really need a modest kitchen update if we want to make any money off the house. (It's true, our kitchen is original 1950's hardly functional and really drags down the value). She just emailed me asking if we had started on the kitchen yet. I replied that we want to do the kitchen to get the most return and since we're currently planning and paying for our wedding, the kitchen will have to wait a year and we won't be ready to list this year. She actually wrote back "Weddings are so expensive- thank goodness for all the gifts you will get! You should get money to recoup what you've spent and use it on the kitchen!" I don't even know how to reply...like ok, I'm not getting married for gifts and I certainly don't expect to receive even half of what I'm spending, but thanks??