This is my second wedding. My mother is very passive aggressive about the fact that she doesn't like my fiance. She was very emotionally abusive when I lived with her. Hell, she's still tries to be emotionally abusive when she can talk to me without my fiance present. However, she can also go from that to being somewhat of a parent at times. I do not hate her. I just don't want to put up with her bipolar attitude about my life.
That being said, she's also a hoarder. BIG TIME. When I was a kid she had narrow pathways of junk we had to walk through to get around the house.
She's helping a bit with our wedding. I told her she could do the kids goodie boxes for the reception. She also mentioned helping with any showers that are thrown.
I want to get her a MOB gift. I just don't know what. I don't want to get her anything that would just take up more space in an already cluttered house. I was thinking a keychain or necklace. But when she sees the bridesmaids gifts, which are more elaborate, she's going to have an issue.
Any ideas??
Thank you!