My fiance and I origionally had our wedding scheduled for May of next year, but he's starting graduate school in September and won't have any spare time for wedding things leading up to May. So we talked about moving the wedding up to a week before the quarter starts and before we could make any kind of official announcement to our wedding party, one of my bridesmaids tells me she's pregnant and due in September. She lives in a different state and wouldn't be able to attend the wedding. She's being difficult and asking me to keep my origional date even though it's not good for my fiance and I. I feel like a horrible friend for wanting to keep it in September. What should I do? She's been one of my best friends since high school and I was just a bridesmaid in her wedding last year.