My wedding in March is also the 3 year anniversary of my cousin's death (I wasn't originally planning on this date, but my brother and FI's brother go to school out of town and due to spring break differences couldn't make the original date - so this was the date that worked best.
It would feel....weird for me to celebrate this date without seemingly giving a thought to my cousin - we were very close and he was a huge part of all of my family's life.
I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on how to honor him on that day. I don't necessarily want to do anything huge; I don't want to make his family uncomfortable or seem as though I'm not honoring any other family members that have passed (my great-grandmother passed away a year ago a few days before our wedding date and I've also lost my great grandfather and my grandpa).
Does anyone have any idea of subtle things that can be done?