Ok so I went and got fitted for a bra. And the lady who did my fitting hooked me up wit these awesome shapeware short things. But it goes over the long line bra. Ok so my question is when I did a fitting put my slip under my bra. Can it go over my bra? Or does ur have to go underneath?
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The bra should be pretty snug so that it holds you up/in. Try pulling the bra higher on your back. Like, seriously high, up right under your shoulder blades. Then, slide it down along your back and if you have to, lift your breasts up into it, but being sure not to slide it too far down your back. It should smooth out some of the back fat.
If you are chubby, which most of us here are, there will be SOME back fat even with a properly fitting bra and dress. But, if it's hanging over significantly after doing what I just suggested, you are right, the bra might be too small.
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PS - what kind of shapewear did you get. It sounds like you are talking about spanx (see link below). If that's what you got, that should go UNDER your longline bra, not over.
http://www.spanx.com/shop/spanx/shapewear/in-power-line-super-higher-power-zid38-916/cat-38-catid-tn_spx_sw?CategoryDomainName=SPXNA-38&var_id=38-916&_t=pfm%3Dcategory
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