My FI and me picked our WP when we first got engaged in 2013 and since then I have been having a issue with one of the grooms men, he said yes to being in the WP but then told us he doesn't know if he's going to be able to come to the rehearsal dinner, which I told him I wanted him there, and he's not 100% sure that he's going to be able to get off for the wedding. I understand that he lives in another state and is in the military but the best man is in the exact same situation and told us that he'll be there no problem. Recently we have been tying to get in contact with this grooms men to talk to him a little bit more about the situation and have not been able to get in contact with him. Now I am very into the look of every girl with their own guy and I can't cut one of my girls and my FI is having issues thinking of someone else to ask.I just don't know if I should risk keeping this grooms men in the WP or find another way to make it work or if there is another way to make it work with out putting two girls with one guy or having them walk down by themselves.
Wait, the only issue is that he can't come to the rehearsal? Who the fuck cares?