Let me start this off saying, I love the hubs with all my mind, heart, and soul. No doubt about it. But he may be the cause for the loss of my sanity before next June!
When we made the decision we would do a vow renewal, he told me to plan whatever I wanted. He said he didn't care how it was done or what the decor was, just tell him when and where and have fun with it. So, I start gathering ideas and checking venues out. At some point, he started asking me how it was going and what I'd come up with so far. I tell him and he wants me to scratch a bunch of thoughts and adds a bunch of his own. No problem. I get it. He's decided this is actually going to be a fun thing to think about and plan. Yay! Join in on the planning, dear, because it is fun and it is OUR vow renewal! So, I go back to thinking and planning and keep a list of ideas for when we have more than 5 minutes to talk. Well, the last time we talked, he asked how it was going and I told him I had some ideas but wanted to run them past him before pricing anything. He tells me something like, "Why wait for me? I told you whatever makes you happy makes me happy!" Grrr ...
This really is just a good-natured vent, I promise. We all get quirky. But, oh my gosh, I just want to pull my hair out sometimes! Anybody else's FI or DH driving you nuts saying, "Do what you want," but also wants you to run it by them first?
Julie
