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Does this happen to you?

At least once a week i've been having nightmares about the wedding. Am I insane or does this happen to you?

Re: Does this happen to you?

  • i don't have them that often but i've had them. they are AWFUL...at least the groom is always there in my dream!
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  • I haven't remembered a wedding nightmare...but then again I RARELY remember my dreams.
    I did have one about the wedding shower though...it was a cousin of mine giving me sexy lingerie infront of my Mom!  I was freaked out in the dream and when I woke up.  This cousin wasn't even at actual wedding shower, but my Aunt did give me a night gown and robe...when I saw the lace in the gift bag I started to remember my dream...LOL, it turned out OK but it was like the revenge of my bridal shower nighmare!
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  • I had them all the time leading up to my wedding.  Dreams that I would show up without my dress, or I forgot to get my hair done, or our ushers didn't know what to do, or no one showed up to the wedding, etc.

    The funny thing is that at the rehearsal dinner, I was talking about my dreams, and one of our GMs said "OMG!  I've been having dreams that I show up to your wedding without my tux!!"  So it wasn't just me having bad dreams about the wedding. haha.
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  • I have had several involving some kind of tragedy with my dress and its horrible. One time the dress came in and it was in some crazy gray camo pattern and it was to late to do anything about. The second time it came in and had a huge hole in the back that could not be repaired. All mine have to do with dress drama though. I feel fortunate I have wonderful consultant at the bridal shoppe because I have called to tell her my nightmares and she is wonderful!
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  • Dude, I'm still having wedding dreams, and I've been married for almost four months.  Kind of annoying.  Your wedding is heavily on your mind, you're naturally going to dream about it.  I found that the dreams were useful in prioritizing what was the most important thing to tackle next, because usually the element that was my biggest concern would feature most prominently in the dream.
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
  • My fiance has all the nightmares about the wedding I'm just not sleeping!  I go to bed and everything is fine and then all of a sudden I'm making checklists in my head and freaking out about things that have to be done. I'm organized and I'm not behind on anything but I'm still freaking out.  And there's still about 40 days to go!
  • OMG I have them all the time!!! It drives me nuts. The other night I dreamt the bridal salon cut parts of my dress and replaced it with different fabric. They said they needed it for someone else. LOL. Last night I dreamt my FI and I woke up late and missed the plane for our honeymoon. I've also dreamt that no one shows up, or my BM's walk in wearing hot pink or some crazy color i would never pick. People say it is stress, however I dont feel stressed out about the wedding or planning at all. i think it is just me and my OCD worrying that something major will go wrong that I cant fix. But they are all ridiculous and would'nt happen. Except for the missing the plane thing..that could totally happen! LOL
  • I haven't had a wedding nightmare yet but I almost never dream and I have had nightmares every night this week. So I am definitely restless at night, even if the dreams aren't actually about the wedding.
  • I had them about midway through the planning and then they pretty much subsided. I did have a few shortly before, but it will get better. Your wedding day will be just perfect.
  • I feel much better knowing im not alone!!
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