I spend a lot of time lurking on E and there are frequent conversations about how you can't tell your guests how to dress. I get it, it's rude. But does seeing "Black Tie Optional" or "Semi-Formal Attire Requested" on an invitation really
I'm already married so it doesn't matter, but I recently got an invitation where "Black Tie Optional" was written and it didn't offend me, I actually got sort of excited for the excuse to buy a new fancier dress.
So I was just wondering if it offends anyone on here.