I ordered some samples of invites last week. They arrived yesterday. FI and I couldn't decide between our 3 favorites. I thought I would get the input of our moms - they are both ridiculously excited about the wedding and love all the planning I include them on. Side note: FI and I are paying for the wedding entirely by ourselves.
I sent pictures of the 3 to my mom, then to FMIL. FMIL (who I have an awesome relationship with and love to death) then called me. She said, "I really love the black and white one. And I loved the way it's worded - 'together with their parents!' That's so sweet. I love it."
So, eek. We're paying for everything ourselves. I wasn't planning on including any mention of our parents on our invitation. But I really don't want to hurt FMIL's feelings. I very well could just not mention it again and just print the invites like I was planning too. But again, what if she then sees the invite and is hurt she's not included? Gah.