We're finalizing our stationary, and I don't know how to treat this situation. My parents are hosting the wedding (with traditional Mr. and Mrs. Dad MyLastName wording on the invitation. However, my mom is not dealing with the guest list or some of those traditional hosting roles. She'd rather I get the RSVPs back since I will be managing the spreadsheets, seating charts, etc. Is it against etiquette to issue the invitations from my parents, and well as from their address, but address the pre-stamped RSVP cards to me? My planner said I can do it, but have to leave my name off of them. That seems silly to me (and, selfishly, and materialistically, the font for the name is swirly pretty script, but the address is just block letters. I want the pretty stuff. Lame, I know.)
What's proper here? Is it acceptable to have the RSVPs sent to my address?