For shame, Martha!
http://www.cnn.com/2014/02/27/living/how-to-save-money-matrimony/index.html?hpt=hp_bn11
Recruit friends
Think of it as cost-free outsourcing.
Be ruthless with the head count
Quick tips for whittling your guest list: Omit children and coworkers (making cuts categorically is less likely to cause rifts); and when it comes to couples, invite spouses, fiances, and live-ins only.
Re: "Cut Corners (with class)" - Another CNN FAIL
She picked up the "using friends for free outsourcing" idea from her own experience of picking up trash on the side of the road.