My boyfriend/fiancé and I have been together now almost 11 years. We got engaged six years ago and found out I was pregnant 1 month later. Decided to hold off until after the baby. Then after the baby, we held off longer because we wanted to buy a house. That took two more years because we had a condo to sell in a recession. Then we sort of lost touch with the idea. Last year we decided to have another baby since my BF/FI was 38 and felt he wasn't getting any younger. Well now we have our home and our kids, all that is left is our marriage. Is it stupid to have a big wedding now after all this time? Any suggestions for alternative style weddings? Problem is, my BF/FI wants the big white wedding, I'd be fine with Vegas, all I care about is wearing a dress.