Our wedding day is slowly turning into a nightmare. We found the venue that fits the budget, theme and style for the wedding. The date is supposed to be perfect as well, that is until we learned that my FI's best man who might as well be his brother has a potential conflict with that day - his mother's 60th birthday party 1500 miles away. Then we think "Okay lets just push it back a week"...find out that my cousin has her wedding the week after. We would like to wait until next summer but I have one cousin and my brother getting married then too. I guess no one can really tell me what to do to solve the issue. The solution is to JUST pick a date and realize there will be conflicts. Maybe I just need to vent, and the people I would normally vent to are going to be directly affected by this situation and I don't want to hurt their feelings. I've been tearing up all day because I'm so frustrated. I can't book anything, photographers, DJs, cake makers, the venue, caterers....etc until I can pick a date. I have 4.5 months to plan this. I'm a mom of two, work two jobs and I have such limited free time...and I can't do a thing. My venue is only on hold for two more days. ARRRG!