Our wedding is 7 months away and I thought we were on the same page for our wedding party. FI has 2 sisters and a brother who have shown little to no interest in the wedding. His mom has been asking about my BMs a lot (what their wearing and such) but I thought she was just trying to show interest. It turns out it's because she is assuming her daughters will be BMs and that was her way of "hinting" I guess. FI is not super close with his family but we do see them fairly regularly. FI and I originally discussed his sisters as BMs and decided against it. We planned to include them in the ceremony by having each of them do a reading. Now FI is feeling pressured and wants to please everyone. He doesn't want to force me to include them but he doesn't want them to feel excluded either. Here is my dilemma, I am more than willing to include them in my bridal party if that is what FI truly wants, but I don't want to do it just to make everyone else happy. I don't really get along with his sisters and I don't feel like they have really welcomed me into their family. Neither sister has even asked how the planning was going unless I brought it up. At Christmas his one sister asked FI about whether or not she would be in the wedding. He asked her what she would like to do if she was and she said she'd like to be a BM but she wouldn't just stand and pass out papers. Maybe I am being petty. Something about the idea of "I want to be included but only if it's a good enough job" really rubs me the wrong way. I want my bridal party to be people I really care about, and people that care about me. I am just not sure that his sisters fit, but I also don't want to look back in 10 years and regret it, nor do I want to still be listening to his mom complain about it. Any advice would be super helpful. Thanks!