Does anyone know the etiquette associated with gifts for babies in the Vietnamese culture? DH's aunt is pregnant with twins. I know they don't do showers based on the shock they exhibited at the mention of my bridal shower. DH is clueless and we aren't really on speaking terms with his mom so I have no one to ask. I'd love to get her gifts but don't know how it would be perceived or when I should give them (before or after birth).