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Choosing my maid of honor

alyssamarie36alyssamarie36 member
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I've already chosen my maid of honor, whom I met about a year and a half ago. But my problem is I don't know how to explain to another friend that she will just be a bridesmaid and not my maid of honor. I was her maid of honor in her wedding about two years ago, and we are still good friends, we just don't see each other as often as we used to. I know I can have both a maid and matron of honor, but that's not what I want. How do I explain to her that I'm choosing someone else to be my maid of honor?
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Re: Choosing my maid of honor

  • chibiyuichibiyui member
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    What maggie said. Ask her to be a bridesmaid. Don'tsy anything about her not being the maid of honor.
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  • sarahuflsarahufl member
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    Don't explain anything.
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  • cowgirl8238cowgirl8238 member
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    Weddings aren't tit for tat.  Just because you were her MOH doesn't means she has to be yours.  Your decision is fine. 

    I would absoultely NOT say/explain anything to her about not getting the title.  That will be hurtful as it would point out the fact that you choose to honor someone else.  Just ask her to be a BM and continue on with your day!

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  • Grabows14Grabows14 member
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    No explanation necessary, if she is a true friend she would be thrilled regardless. 
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