Ok, this may seem like a silly question...
I'm one of the babies in my extended family. Nearly everyone has paired off except a couple younger cousins, one older one, and a few that are engaged and will be married after my wedding. And of my friends who will attend, there are like 3 single ladies. My fiance is the last of his friends to get married, with the exception of one couple who is engaged and getting married in 2015. I'd love to do a bouquet toss, but what is an appropriate number of unmarried invitees IN ATTENDANCE at a 100-120 person wedding to hit so that it doesn't seem like I'm singling people out? I think we have 13-16 single or engaged ladies invited (so about 10% of guests... I just forgot the number off the top of my head). I'd love to partake in this silly tradition, but only if I'm not embarrassing anyone by having so few people it's calling attention to only a handful of people.
And in case anyone was going to ask (because this is the etiquette board, and I know we like to play out all scenarios for faux pas), no, I will not be calling people up by name or anything rude like that.
Editing for clarity, because I don't even know why, this is absurd: The question is not me asking if I should add guests. I am asking, out of those I've invited, about how many single or engaged women should be in attendance for the level to be comfortable enough for those who are not married to do a bouquet toss. I'm thinking 10, but am just not sure.
Ok, in conclusion: Tosses are awkward and people hate them. I'm borderline even if all those people attend. So I'm not going to do a toss, because I love my single guests too much to make my wedding awkward for them. Now my sweets table will have an awesome flower arrangement in a vase!
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