So, one of my bridesmaid's asked me if she and another bridesmaid could plan a bachelorette party for me (so generous of them!). She told me I should put together a list of names of people I'd like invited if we had it in city X vs city Y (long story, no need to explain here). Thing is, she mentioned it off hand ("at some point I'll need…") so I'm not sure if that was her asking me to give her a list or not. I worry that if I send a list she'll think that I expect something of her, but maybe that actually was her asking me. What do you girls think? I'm not sure how to interpret what she said. If I send her a list, will she think I'm telling her to do something without her offering?