I haven't seen my best friend since September 2012 because he is in the Air Force and has been stationed in Germany/Afghanistan. He came home Monday and I haven't head anything from him. Nothing.
To preface this a little, we have been friends for about 9 years and are attached at the hip. Any time he is home, I am the first to know and we hang out as much as possible. He started dating a girl sometime in August while he was overseas. They plan on getting married while he is in the States and he bought her a ring. They've never even hung out in person which makes me side-eye their relationship but I try not to judge. He leaves Monday to go down to FL where he will stay until his next deployment, and his GH/FI whatever she is will moving with him.
I texted him yesterday evening since I haven't head from him since he's been back. 5 HOURS LATER he texts me back and doesn't mention meeting up to hang out or to meet FI. I told him over the weekend to call me when he had some free time and me and FI would come up and hang out for a little bit. I understand he's busy and I know he's trying to spend time with his GF/FI, but I would think he could spare a couple hours to hang out and meet FI, which at one point seemed SO important to him. My question is: Do I make any more attempts to get together and meet up or just completely leave it up to him and if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen? I'm at the point where I'm irritated and don't even give a shit anymore, but I would really like to see him and for him to meet FI.