My fiance and I were both raised catholic. We have both made our communions and confirmations. We are both god parents to children within the last 2 years. That being said.....
Neither of us go to church regularly. My mom puts my envelops in the basket every week but I dont even live in that state anymore.
I always said I wanted to get married at the recpeption hall. I have been saying this for years!!!!! My fiance said he wanted nothing to do with the planning. He trusted me and to go ahead and pick whatever I wanted. He just wanted to be in charge of food (menues). So all was good. Until he said he wanted to be married in a catholic church.
I just dont feel right doing this. I dont go to church like I said, and neither does he. I live with him, Im on the pill....there is just so much in my life that I do or have done that is frowned apon by the church. Also the whole covering of the shoulders and no strapless bridesmaids dresses is also making me crazy. I want to walk down the isle to Train's Marry Me, and pick other music as well....all not acceptable by a catholic church.
I said I would absolutely bend and meet him halfway and do a non-denominational church but this doesnt seem to be enough.....
no idea what to do at this point
Any comments, thoughts, answers???????