My Fiance and I are getting married in the end of June in his hometown in Wisconsin, which happens to be a solid eight hours from mine. I am moving to his hometown the beginning of June. We are planning on going back to my hometown in Iowa in mid June for a few days, but we wont be back in Iowa for several months after we get married. Would it be appropriate to throw a second reception while we are in town in mid June even though we won't be married yet?