My fiance and I are not sure if you should ask for our deposit back. We got engaged back in June. We knew of a DJ that had done a few events for our friends and a company i work for. He gave us a great deal and i send him the a $100 deposit. He was suppose to send a contract and never did. I let it slide cause we were friends kind of. Then a few months after I get an email just confirming our wedding date as May 5th when it was actually May 31st. I corrected him and let it slide. He had been wanting to meet and I was finally able to meet after the holidays. I had to cancel cause I got really sick. We reschedule and I called him the day before to confirm and he said " well i can't meet i have a funeral to go to". So i let it slide again even thought he should have called me to tell me. so we rescheduled for another day. Each time i write back exact month, day and time. So i go away for the weekend with my friends and i get a text asking to comfirm our appointment when it actually for the following weekend. I Text back saying i am in arizona for the weekend and I will be back tomorrow night and that i have next sunday Date and time. The day before i call to confirm. No call back, Text, nothing again. FB message, Nothing again. Call him in the morning, Nothing again. we wait 1.5 hours and no call. I text him later that day asking whats up we had an appointment and he gets back to me saying sorry and he thought i was gone for 2 weeks..how i have no idea. I can't work with someone who clearly doesn't write anything down. SInce i sent him a deposit and there was no contract is it ok to ask for the deposit back.