I'm hoping you all can snap me out of my funk. I'm marrying an incredible man, but we're both older. I'm 37. Neither one of us has been married before. Neither one of us has kids. That being said, some of my friends have been wonderful, so I guess I really shouldn't complain, but several people have turned down our invite. I went to all of their events. Wedding, showers, kids' birthdays, recitals, sports events, etc... I've been in several weddings and thrown several showers/bachelorette parties. I just feel like I've been excited for them. Why can't they be excited for me? I know it seems like old hat to most everyone else now, but I've never done this before. It's all new and exciting. I get that things change and kids make it more difficult to be there for someone, but I'd just like a phone call or at least regret that someone can't make it. Am I being too selfish or asking too much? I'm just kind of sad that I'm not shown the same courtesy that I'd show for someone else.