So, when I first got engaged I mentioned just for fun that it could be
awesome to do a night in chicago for my bachelorette. This was like when
I first got engaged 2 years ago and it was just a thought not a demand.
Well, now I find out we are doing chicago and it was supposed to be a
surprise. However, most of my girls have been texting me kind of venting
about what the other girls are saying and it's kind of getting to me. I
never wanted to do anything to inconvenience anyone or put any
financial stress on anyone....but it seems to be turning out that way.
Some of the girls seem to be doing it out or obligation and others seem
to want to go. then 2 girls just backed out at the last minute after the
hotel was booked and paid for. Now I kind of just want to cancel the
whole thing and cut our losses....but that seems to be even more
stressful. I just dont really know what to do at this point. I mentioned
the idea of cancelling and 3 of the girls were like yeah that sounds
good we will just come hang out with you for the weekend...and the other
two girls were like well we are still going so you should come with us.
So now I feel like it's even more messed up and I should never have
said anything to begin with. It's in 3 weeks so I have to figure it out