FI and I got to talking wedding planning and budget last night and we figured out that we'll have between 50-60 people at our wedding. Neither of us have tons of friends and our family is what's most important. However, the question is, what's the best way to find the "hole in the wall" venues? I would feel really weird putting only 50 people in a huge ballroom. (Looking in the New England area). We will not be getting married at a particular church although it will be by his pastor. I would like to stay with one venue for both ceremony and reception.