So…
My mom’s brother lives in New Mexico. I haven’t seen him
or his 3 kids since I was 13. His kids are well older than me and divorced with
kids of their own. I hadn’t even intended on inviting these cousins to the wedding
since I hadn’t seen/talked to them in so long but when they found out I was
engaged they were all “yeah, can’t wait to be there.” When I sent the save the
dates, I did not include plus ones or kids on their cards. Just the cousins. I
don’t know their kids, and I don’t even know if they have significant others.
I get this FB message yesterday from one of the cousins saying “Can’t wait to be at the wedding and I’m bringing my two
daughters.” No question, just a statement. What do I do? If he’s bringing his
kids, then I can only assume his siblings will bring theirs (7 kids total)
that’s a lot of extra heads.
We are allowing kids at the wedding but I hadn't planned on these extra kids and the guest count is already way too high.
Also- my mom is incredibly passive so this isn't really a conversation she can have with her brother. its all on me.
Help!