A little boy member of the groom's family was asked to be ring bearer back in Sept. 2013 at the couples engagement dinner. We were all thrilled.
Six months later and four months before the wedding they kicked him out.
The did say he could walk down the aisle, but by no means be at the reception or not even the rehersal dinner.
The reason - they have a few depending on the wedding couple's mood and day.
Their reasons: are my (the bride) cousins will be upset seeing a child at the wedding, when it's adults only. But, I guess seeing him walk down the aisle they wouldn't notice.
Or we are cutting costs - but children his age would be free - so that makes no sense.
Or we simply changed our minds (six months later) and that is our decision and you have to respect it.
Or when we first asked we got caught up in all the excitement and then we just changed our minds.
What are some of your thoughts to this situation?