We don't have any little kids in our family and want to honor two cousins who are 18/21 respectively. I've heard of grandmothers, 'Jr. Bridesmaids', family friends, etc all doing the duties of the flower girls so we want to ask these two cousins to be our flower girls (also, I was their Mom's flower girl 22 years ago so it's kinda a full circle thing... awwww).
Should we still call them Flower Girls? Jr. Bridesmaids? I lean away from Jr Bridesmaid because they are not junior and I really don't like the term honorary bridesmaids. Or should we create our own title? And how should we ask these girls to be a part of our wedding? (for reference I wrote a poem for the bridesmaids).
Thanks for all your help!