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Dignity100
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XP: Trying on dresses - the good and the bad (PIP)
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I know it was helpful for me seeing different dresses on different brides even though we are all different sizes and shapes. So here are the dresses I tried on that I got pictures of - don't mind the clear bra straps in many of the pictures, I didn't have a long line bra to take dress shopping with me and that was the best I could do! In my mind, some of these are bad... really bad, but I'm sharing them anyway.
didn't like it, but it was the first one I put on (David's Bridal)
This one did nothing for me either, but I liked the ruffles (David's bridal)
I liked and almost went with this one - but it wasn't exactly my size and discontinued (david's bridal)
I didn't care for the skirt on this one but started getting a little more confidence (don't remember)
I actually liked this one but it would be too hot for my wedding and it just wasn't 100% it (don't remember):
I wasn't comfortable with the bust on this one, liked the ruffles (allure):
This one was nice, but I wanted more bling and at the time was double my original budget (I later increased my budget after sitting down with FI and actually doing a budget, found out there was a bit left over for my dress than I thought) (impression):
This was my next 'almost got' - I started comparing myself to other brides who had this dress and couldn't pull the trigger (Davids Bridal):
Here's another pictures same dress as above:
Not comfortable in this one at all (davids bridal)
It hit me in all the wrong places (david's bridal)
I had to put a modest panel in the front of this one (Alfred Angelo)
The tag was cut out - no idea
Again got a 'modesty panel' - tag cut out no idea
Alfred Angelo - I have nothing nice to say about this one on me, I took the picture to show my mom that sleeves were not working
This is why chubby brides shouldn't do low backs
(Mori Lee Julietta)
I actually liked this one kinda - she couldn't convince me that a proper size would lay flat on me and not show off my 'rolls' (Alfred Angelo Disney collection)
I think this may have been an Alfred Angelo but I don't remember
I think I look pregnant in this one (no idea)
This one didn't do a good job holding my boobs where they need to be (Alfred Angelo)
I really liked this dress! My mom was not sold on how fitted it was and there was one I'd love a lot more (Allure Romance)
Princess gown! This is my dress (Allure Couture)
I really loved this dress but it just did not photograph well on me (ladies take a picture before you buy if you can!) (Mori Lee)
A lot of the girls on the internet liked this one, the girls that came with me said it looked too prom-y and wasn't the look I was going for (don't remember)
Another mermaid/trumpet style - I know my wedding is going to be a LONG day and I wouldn't have been comfortable in it (plus it was out of my comfort zone) (don't remember)
didn't like it, but it was the first one I put on (David's Bridal)
This one did nothing for me either, but I liked the ruffles (David's bridal)
I liked and almost went with this one - but it wasn't exactly my size and discontinued (david's bridal)
I didn't care for the skirt on this one but started getting a little more confidence (don't remember)
I actually liked this one but it would be too hot for my wedding and it just wasn't 100% it (don't remember):
I wasn't comfortable with the bust on this one, liked the ruffles (allure):
This one was nice, but I wanted more bling and at the time was double my original budget (I later increased my budget after sitting down with FI and actually doing a budget, found out there was a bit left over for my dress than I thought) (impression):
This was my next 'almost got' - I started comparing myself to other brides who had this dress and couldn't pull the trigger (Davids Bridal):
Here's another pictures same dress as above:
Not comfortable in this one at all (davids bridal)
It hit me in all the wrong places (david's bridal)
I had to put a modest panel in the front of this one (Alfred Angelo)
The tag was cut out - no idea
Again got a 'modesty panel' - tag cut out no idea
Alfred Angelo - I have nothing nice to say about this one on me, I took the picture to show my mom that sleeves were not working
This is why chubby brides shouldn't do low backs
(Mori Lee Julietta)I actually liked this one kinda - she couldn't convince me that a proper size would lay flat on me and not show off my 'rolls' (Alfred Angelo Disney collection)
I think this may have been an Alfred Angelo but I don't remember
I think I look pregnant in this one (no idea)
This one didn't do a good job holding my boobs where they need to be (Alfred Angelo)
I really liked this dress! My mom was not sold on how fitted it was and there was one I'd love a lot more (Allure Romance)
Princess gown! This is my dress (Allure Couture)
I really loved this dress but it just did not photograph well on me (ladies take a picture before you buy if you can!) (Mori Lee)
A lot of the girls on the internet liked this one, the girls that came with me said it looked too prom-y and wasn't the look I was going for (don't remember)
Another mermaid/trumpet style - I know my wedding is going to be a LONG day and I wouldn't have been comfortable in it (plus it was out of my comfort zone) (don't remember)
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Re: XP: Trying on dresses - the good and the bad (PIP)
Loved the veil - way too expensive (if anybody has suggestions on a veil I still need one!)
Aww - look at my little 'this is the one' smirk!
Funny thing, the gown that's similar to yours in style but "hit in all the wrong places" is my gown! I'm not sure how tall you are but on me, the sample gown just barely touched the ground. Where it hits you low on the hips, it's sitting just on top of mine. Funny how a little height difference can totally change the shape!
@Dignity100 - You're almost the same as me! I'm 5'3" and wear a 14 jean/pant. I love seeing these pictures from you. I really should finish posting the rest of mine. I tried on nearly 40 dresses!
I also had on (and liked) the one at DB that so many seem to have. That doesn't really bother me, but I couldn't pull the trigger on it either. I ended up in an Allure couture gown too! Mine's C243 while yours is C269. Completely different styles, but it's amazing to me how similar our dress shopping experiences were.
As for the veils, I'm making my own. Hand beading is not particularly difficult, just tedious and time-consuming. Is that something you feel like you could do? Because it saves so much money. If not, I'd definitely check out etsy. They may even have better deals depending on how much beading you like/the materials you'd have to buy because the etsy sellers can probably afford to buy things in bulk quantities and pass the savings on to you, whereas if you did that you'd just end up spending more for extra stuff you didn't need. Making veils is fairly straightforward, even for those not necessarily "crafty" (though I admit, I am crafty) so it could definitely be an option. Tulle is only about $1.99/yard and I got six plastic combs in a package from a craft store for another $1.99. I may upgrade to metal, though. Still, that's not a lot of money. Certanly not $100+.
"They say there's no such place... as Paradise. Even if you search to the ends of the Earth, there's nothing there. No matter how far you walk, it's always the same road. It just goes on and on. But, in spite of that... Why am I so driven to find it? A voice calls to me... It says, 'Search for Paradise.' " - Kiba, Wolf's Rain
I probably tried on about 30 dresses, but some were so awful I didn't take pictures of them. Now I wish I would have because I think it would have helped others see the different styles and such.
I wanted a blinged out princess dress because I feel it suits my venue the best (even though I'm having a TINY wedding, it's still my wedding).
It certainly is "blinged out princess"! I'm glad you found exactly what you wanted. I did too since I'm a really simple country girl and lace is what I really wanted. I went over budget, but my parents seemed okay with that and since they had generously offered to buy my dress, that was the most important to me. I feel a little guilty about spending more than planned, but my mom was there and she also knew it was "the one". I completely understand about not wanting to go over with the veil too. It's amazing how expensive they are compared with the actual costs of materials. Most of the cost is labor, I'm sure, since they can take a long time to make by hand depending on design. I have time, so it works out for me.
I'm adding lace from my mother's wedding dress to my veil and probably will forego the beading. But, I did by some beads just in case and practiced a bit to learn how to do it. The thumb thing probably would get in your way with doing such intricate work with a needle. The blinged out veil is also awesome. It suits the dress really well without detracting from it, I think. If you were doing a plain, raw-edge veil, I would 100% still recommend making it assuming you can still use scissors. It's cheaper than even etsy to do it that way. Still, I think you want something "more" for your veil, so I'd just keep looking at etsy. I've seen some beautiful ones there.
I took pictures in nearly every wedding dress I tried. The only ones I didn't were the ones I literally could not put on or the ones that were far to immodest to take photos of. I did not have the luxury of a modesty panel with some, unfortunately. I kind of want to put them all in a photobook and have them to laugh and remember my shopping experience by. And show them to my Fi when it's all over.
"They say there's no such place... as Paradise. Even if you search to the ends of the Earth, there's nothing there. No matter how far you walk, it's always the same road. It just goes on and on. But, in spite of that... Why am I so driven to find it? A voice calls to me... It says, 'Search for Paradise.' " - Kiba, Wolf's Rain