One of my best friend's from college officially became divorced today. She's one of my bridesmaids for my March 2015 wedding. She's having moments where she is happy about the divorce, moments where she is depressed - and I just want to know how to be the best friend I can be to someone going through this.
I've mentioned to her before her papers came through that if she chose not to be in my bridal party any longer because it brings up any painful memories for her, that I would not be upset? Was this okay to say? She seems okay so far- but I know she is hurting and I don't want her to feel any worse than she already does.
Sometimes she'll lash out at me - and our friends, family etc.,. I've never had a friend go through this before so any guidance would be much appreciated. Thank you all!