I have a little time to decide, as I haven't even asked my prospective maids to be my maids yet. I just wanted to get some insight into what you all thought. We are all nursing students, and all my girls are very good at doing their own hair and make-up...actually much better at it than I can do for myself. (kinda makes me a little jealous hehe) What I want is a pretty simple style for myself, because I want to look like me on my wedding day, not a fairytale princess or a magazine page...But I know it's just enough out of my realm of ponytail and straightening iron for me to do on my own. My concern is, do you think I am being a bridezilla by telling my girls that they can feel free to do their own hair and make-up however they choose? I know they would probably appreciate not having to spend the extra money as we are all paying for $1000s in books/tuition right now, but I don't want them to take it the wrong way, as if I'm saying I'm the bride and I deserve to have pro hair but not you. I'm not saying that at all, but I don't want to make it a requirement. By all means, if they choose to get their hair done by a professional, that is perfectly fine, my girls are all gorgeous and I want them to feel that way too. I just don't want to seem like I'm being bitchy or that I don't care by telling them it's their decision. Help?