My dad posted this to my fb wall. We have not talked on the phone in months. He is not attending my wedding. I was enraged that he is just shit stirring, as usual. It would be one thing if I thought he was not judgmental or critical of me. We have a very tense relationship, and I know I will never talk to him again if he doesn't attend my wedding. So I told him, I did not appreciate the shit-stirring so early in the day, and he told me he was only joking. Am I being too sensitive, or do you think that this post said by a close female friend takes on a different meaning than when said from a chauvinistic male. Or even said by any close friend than someone you barely have a relationship with? Am I being too sensitive or is this extremely passive aggressive to say this to me on fb, knowing I won't start a fight on a public forum?