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Knottie27078757 · March 2014

I have decided that I am not up for other people's opinions and therefore am taking away the content of this post.

AddieCake · March 2014

First, you shouldn't have asked them as a group, but that ship has sailed. Second, you do nothing further. Next step is to ask each groomsman PRIVATELY for their attire budgets. If he doesn't want to be in it, he will remove himself. Not everyone gets jazzed about weddings.

Knottie27078757 · March 2014

AddieCake · March 2014

I am just saying that is the next step. Many people don't know they should ask their wedding party for a budget, and since you asked these men as a group instead of privately and are upset he's not as excited as you would like, I got the impression you might also TELL instead of ask about their budgets.

jneen101 · March 2014

It's really rude to delete your post. Perhaps it could help someone else here? If you don't want opinions two hours after you make a post, just don't click on the post again.

AddieCake · March 2014

Dammit. I knew I should have quoted.

If anyone is curious, they asked their groomsmen as a group while out to dinner. One of them didn't seem all that thrilled and was overheard complaining about doing it. Bride asked him if he didn't want to be in it, and he said, "What makes you think I don't want to be in it?" Bride was not satisfied with his response and wanted to know if she should address it further and didn't want negative people standing with them on the wedding day.

AshleyNicole1218 · March 2014

11:00 and already a DD? Gonna be a long one today.

Edited- Only two sentences and I cannot handle typing properly.

HaileyDancingbear · March 2014

To all Newbies and Lurkers: STOP DELETING YOUR POSTS. The thread will die on its own if you stop commenting. But when you delete, it's a bat signal and EVERYONE wants to see what was so horrible it hurt your special feelings enough to delete it.

@dlc1988 you literally just accomplished the opposite of what you wanted. DDs grab lots of attention. Next time there's this fancy little feature called logging out or simply not clicking on and reading responses, or simply not posting online if you can't handle even the slightest bit of disagreement.