So my brother in law is getting married this summer. They sent out Save the Dates the other day as they are getting married up on Lake Michigan which is about a 4 hour drive for 90% of the guests. We've heard a lot of their plans as we're all pretty close to one another, and I was really looking forward to this wedding. They're getting married on the beach and then having a very simple reception at a local inn. It's going to be kind of cookout-style, with someone hired to do the grilling and serving, but still pretty casual.
Or at least that's what I thought until I noticed that at the bottom of the Save the Date it said "Formal attire requested". Wtf? First of all, don't tell me how to dress. Second, I don't own formal attire and will not be purchasing any in order to traipse around in the sand for the ceremony. Third, I think the reception sounds awesome and fun, but NOT formal. I had plenty of ideas of what to wear before this, but now I'm just confused. I don't want to be that girl who starts an issue with the in-laws over something silly, but...wtf? Should I just wait and see what develops as invites are sent out? Or should I get my husband to poke around for more info?