So since I am the only and only Bridesmaid/Maid of honor in my sister's wedding I am choosing to throw her a bachelorette party. I have been told to include 7 unofficial bridesmaids, so I did. I booked the rooms, dinner reservation and started getting custom favors, buying drinks, decorations etc. At her shower last weekend I had 3 girls come up to me and ask about the party. I told them what we are doing and invited them to come along after dinner to bars and clubs (it's in Atlantic City)and that they would have to handle their own hotel room reservations. They immediately told me i just HAD to change the date since 2 out of the 3 girls could not attend due to a wedding that my sister was not even invited to. I politely told them no and that is the date of the party if they would like to attend they can. Several days later I get an email from one of the girls saying she can come so since it was only one person I added her to the guest list, purchased her a customized favor, added her onto hotel and dinner reservations. She then tells me wait shouldn't we wait until we see who else can come. I said that hotel and dinner reservations were already made for the bridal party and I added her onto our room as a courtesy. All of these other people must find their own room and make their own dinner reservations as unfortunately the restaurant is sold out for the night. Going to another restaurant is not an option as my sister is a picky eater and I cannot make a reservation for all of these "people" who just magically want to come after all arrangements have been made. Currently We are at 8 people and would be at 9 with this girl. She then tells me that oh well maybe i'll just have another party for her with other ppl next weekend. What? This is unfair I am trying very hard to throw a nice party and people are just inviting themselves. I am letting them come out to the clubs/bars with us and i'm not sure what else i can do to accommodate all of these other people who were no originally invited.
