The majority of our guests are my fiance's family, and he is very close to his family. I am trying to come up with some roles for some of his teenage cousins and his nephews in the wedding to honor their importance in my fiance's life and would appreciate some advice.
I have already chosen the ringbearer, who is a really special kid to me. However, my fiance has a nephew who is the same age, and I feel kind of bad for not having asked him. I am now thinking of having both of them be ringbearers, each one carrying one ring each. They would come down the aisle together. Does anyone think this would work well? They are both 8 years old.
Other roles I have in mind for some of the teenage cousins are handing out programs as guests enter, helping decorate, doing a reading, and Mc'ing. Does anyone have any other ideas? Also, are these roles an honor, or are they "jobs"? I hate to make anyone feel like they are "working" my wedding.
Thank you!