My Boyfriend (we aren't engaged just yet) wants us to go elope instead of having a huge wedding with our families and I want to have my dream wedding that i feel like I have been planning my entire life. He did try and conpromise and agree to a small wedding with my mom, sister and two brothers and his mom and dad on a tropical beach somewhere. Because He isnt that close with most of his family and he said if I have my wedding I want all he wants at the wedding is his mom and dad so it would be all my family and friends I don't know if I should go with having like a small thing with just my mom and close family and his mom and dad or do the whole big dream wedding. HELP!!!