MOH complained to me that site through which she ordered bridal shower invites corrected her to remove the "please" as it is the SVP in RSVP.
Thankfully she followed their advice but when telling me, she just kept saying it felt rude to not say please, and I kept saying, but you are, it's already included. I eventually just ended the line of coversation by thanking her again for hosting the shower and redirected the conversation. But really? Really?? This is an educated, well traveled woman. I just can't believe this had to be explained to her. Ok, snarkfest over.