As I understand it (and do please correct me if I'm wrong) typical invites to the rehearsal dinner are the wedding party and their SO's, the immediate family of the bride and groom, and sometimes out of town guests.
Well, all of my extended family is far away, and I am grateful that several of them are planning to fly in for my wedding. I want to include them in the rehearsal dinner.
However, my FH's parents have expressed their intention to pay for the rehearsal dinner. So, I feel guilty inviting a bunch of my out of town family that I would love to see and spend time with. My mom is comfortable with money, and I'm sure she'd be fine with paying for them.
How can I approach this? Should I suggest they split the rehearsal dinner costs? I don't like the idea of the grooms parents paying for a bridal family reunion, but I simply can't ignore the opportunity to visit with family I rarely get to see.
Help!