FI and I are getting married 10/11/14 with 80-100 guests. We're getting married in a different state from where we live. I feel completely clueless when it comes to registering. Please help!
1. When should we register? My grandma is throwing me a bridal shower in September, so I know before that. But how long before? Would it be tacky to register now?
2. How many places is appropriate to register for our guest list? Is it ok to only register at one store? Do we have to do at least one generic store (like Target)?
3. How many items should be on each registry?
4. Since we live out of state, is there any nice way to ask that gifts be mailed or that we receive cash or gift cards instead? I really didn't even want to do a registry for this reason, but I don't want to be rude to our guests. If we do get a bunch of gifts at the wedding, the only thing I can think to do is return them there and then rebuy them after we fly home.
5. I know registry info only goes on the website and absolutely not on the invitations. I was horrified to find out that Bed, Bath and Beyond gives you cards for your invitations that say the couple is registered there. This makes me not even want to use BB&B. Any other etiquette things I should know about registering?
Thank you!