Pre-wedding Parties

Shower Etiquette

My very awesome and overly gracious MIL is throwing a bridal shower for my Fiance and I today.  The final count for the food went into the hall on tuesday. My Family have no grace or etiquette when it comes to events like this.  I have an Aunt who RSVP for the shower.  Last weekend she knew that this weekend she would be going to Massachusetts to pick up a motorcycle.  As of last night around 10 pm they were just checking into her hotel.  She has not called or messaged me to cancel.  I feel I'm in a bad position because, my MIL is paying for everything  and now if my aunt is a no-show she is out of the money for that plate of food. Should I say something, I'm feel upset and slighted over the lack of respect my Aunt has for me and my future family.  

Re: Shower Etiquette

  • AddieCakeAddieCake Beyond the Wall member
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    I would not say anything to your aunt, no.
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • chibiyuichibiyui The Boring Part of MD member
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    I would not say anything either. 
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  • I wouldn't say anything.  If your aunt does not show then I wouldn't worry.  You can't control what people do and it sucks.
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