The OP is devasted and heartbroken. Those 2 words would tell me you broke up with your FI or someone has been injured/is sick/has died. Nope. She is devastated and heartbroken because her MOH can no longer host her shower because her child broke her arm and she has medical bills piling up. OP was paying for a third of the shower already. She is inconsolable that no one is throwing her a shower. Not devastated that her dear friend has mounting medical bills, just that she isn't getting a shower.
http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/im-heartbroken-just-devastated/6b03059e0a812d48.html