My FI had a gastric bypass about 2 weeks ago - he's already losing a ton of weight and I'm super proud of him. I'm also overweight (obese [meh]). Years ago I lost over 100lbs on diet and exercise but managed to gain it all back. He's been talking to me about surgery as well. I've been so anti-surgery for myself....I just don't want to permanently change my body like that. But then I'm afraid that I am not going to be able to lose weight and he is already so close to me weight wise now and he is going to be under me soon. I'm active and I'm trying to eat right. Right now, he is my biggest obstacle to fitness because I've been having to come home after work to be with him during his recovery. Otherwise I'd be at my kickboxing class and trying to get into my gym routine.
I'm just overwhelmed I guess. If I do it, I can't get pregnant for two years. But if I don't lose weight, the likelihood of me getting pregnant anyways are slim to none. Also, with the wedding in 6 months, there's just no way I could get it done before it and have enough time to recover before the wedding. I just feel lost. I don't know what to do.