so my fmil is not attending my shower next week. shes in her mid 70s had fi later in life. shes not really excited about the wedding thinks its to lavish for her tastes said she cant see fi getting married bla bla. hes told her many times he needs to move on with his life and get married hes a grown man he makes his own decisions.
anyways she sent my sister a cold kinda of response on the shower how she was not attending but inclosed is a gift.
what if people start to ask at my shower where is his mom? what do i say
she has some health problems so my thinking was i could say she has problems with her knees lately and does not like to go very far so she could not make it
but then that's a lame excuse
option b was to tell them shes not coming and change the subject