My oldest sister and i do not get along, she states it was due to something i did years ago, we mended these broken bridges, or so i thought? But she had the nerve to say she could not be excited about our wedding unless she knew she would be a party of the bridal party? My FI and i are both hurt by this and she didnt even congratulate us on such a joyous occasion of getting engaged. How do i not include her as a bridesmaid as as my FI and I feel she would not be there for us. What else can i have my sister help with to help her feel just as important?