I am wracking my brain, why my FSIL would do this. My FSIL is one of my BMs. My FI's family is not very organized, so planning something with them is difficult, at best. My other FSIL is having a baby, and her baby shower is the week before my bridal shower. I wanted to go in on a joint baby shower gift for pregger FSIL. I called up all four of FI's sisters and asked them if it was something they wanted to do. No one got back to me. I have been at this for weeks, all the while managing to get a couple of answers about the baby shower we are hosting for FSIL. I facebook message FSIL, asking about going in a gift for other FSIL. She said, "The shower IS her gift!" I typed, "Okay," and was done with that. Then I see FI's younger sister, last night, and she tells me that sister (that told me the shower was the gift) was getting the baby a bookcase. And the sister I saw last night is getting her a gift, as well. I don't know why the older sister would say that to me. I feel like I am being ambushed. I would look like a fool when I was the only one not bringing a gift, and I thought it was weird to not get her something, anyway. I was torn all week about getting her something, anyway, but did not want to upstage the sisters. And I did not want to get her nothing, because we are close family. My new niece should have something special from her aunt. Why would someone tell me something and do something completely different? What are your thoughts, ladies?