I am 24 years old and me and my fiancé have been together for 4years now, and last November he proposed. He is in the military and deploying in July ): which is vastly approaching. We wanted to get married now, but do not have enough time to plan and have our dream wedding. Is it normal to have an actual court house marriage before a big ceremony and reception? I think that's what were headed towards but it sounds so weird to me, help? Were thinking of having the initial celebration and ceremony a few months after he comes back home to us. He will be gone for a whole year. Ideas? Thoughts? Similar situations?
I want to have this clearly thought out before I start to set a date that im paying so much money for. We know where we want to have it.. just a little bad timing right now.