Please don't shoot me if this is something that's been on here recently, but I just want to make sure I don't leave anyone out of the rehearsal dinner and hurt feelings/offend anyone. We have all of the WP members (and SO's) on the list, as well as parents and siblings. I have made sure to include the officiant and his wife but what about our friend who is doing a reading for us? I would not require him to come to the rehearsal, as he just returned from out of the country and is without a vehicle. Should I invite him to the rehearsal and RD as a courtesy? I just don't want him to feel obligated to show up since it may be difficult for him to drive up for the evening.
What would you do?