My Maid of Honor recently told me she is pregnant and her due date is 10 days after the wedding....I was totally supportive especially because this was not planned on her part and I wanted to be there for her! I don't care that she will be REALLY pregnant at the wedding or anything like that. But recently she has totally fell off the bane wagon and won't return my calls about whether she has ordered her dress yet or how things are coming together for the bachelorette party ( which was her idea to plan and keep a secret for me) etc. Most the wedding planning is done and I am ok with taking care of the details on my own and with my moms help. I would just really like her to play a leadership role among the bridal party and a supportive role to me throughout the whole process.
My question is how do I plan for the fact that she may not even be there the day of the wedding whether she is giving birth or just doesn't come around? Is it appropriate for me to ask one of the other bridesmaids to step in as a second MOH? I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but also worried my MOH will never admit to all this being to much. Its a tough situation, trying to be supportive of my friend who is scared about being pregnant but also looking out for myself and my one and only wedding....
Any guidance is appreciated! or if anyone has had to deal with the same issues would love to hear how it ended up!